And while imaginary companions usually taper off around the age of nine, in rare cases, they are friends for life. Agatha Christie had imaginary friends into her 70s. And that commonly held belief that girls create girl friends and boys imagine boy friends?
It simply isn't true. Today, with such a high premium placed on creativity, it should not be all that surprising that the imaginary-friend landscape has seen such a dramatic shift. That interest has helped transform a once-stigmatized aspect of childhood into something that is increasingly celebrated. In one, a parent used a remote control to close the family's garage door, then told the child that the imaginary friend had done it. That didn't compute with the confused child.
It was this blue winter coat we were getting rid of because it didn't fit me any more. They took the coat away. Jimmy never came back. This is a space where subscribers can engage with each other and Globe staff. Non-subscribers can read and sort comments but will not be able to engage with them in any way.
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Just like in real-life healthy peer relationships, a mixture of positive and negative emotions characterizes imaginary companionships, she says. Perhaps surprisingly, the work of Taylor and others has shown that, despite the complexity of imaginary friendships and their similarities to real-world relationships, kids recognize that their imaginary friends are make-believe. Small, statistically significant differences between kids with and without imaginary companions do arise, however, and they tend to be positive, says Taylor. For example, children with these pretend pals tend to have a slightly larger vocabulary, are less shy, and are good at understanding the perspective of others.
Over the course of her research, Taylor has noticed that children who had imaginary friends as preschoolers sometimes move on to developing an entire imaginary world, or paracosm. These worlds are typically elaborate, entailing their own geography, transportation systems, governments, and holidays. They found that the kids regarded the virtual pup as entertaining, but felt protection and friendship from the plush one children sometimes ascribe inanimate objects imaginary friend status, although Taylor says not all researchers agree that these items are true imaginary companions.
The results hint at the idea that youngsters form deeper relationships with tangible objects than they do with technology, but more research is necessary to draw a more definitive conclusion. Despite how focused children might be on their imaginary friends, as they get older, many tend to forget that they even had one. It can happen within two years of outgrowing the companion.